Archive for July 2009

Network Marketing Tools for Success

Every Thursday night at 5PM Pacific time, you can learn from Lil Roberts, one of the best!  Her focus is on Mastering the Art of Introduction and Overcoming Objections.  Each week you can learn from successful BROKERS who are building their business and know what works.  Here is a summary for you from tonight’s call.

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Have a POSITIVE mindset - if you are feeling positive it shows in everything you do.  Walk tall with your head up (how many bummed out people walk looking up?) stand tall and confident.  CONFIDENCE is a trust builder.  PASSION promotes ENTHUSIASM so be proud of what you do and what you believe in, we use this system and it works!  You can be excited, but not over the top, even if you feel it cuz you just signed 5 people and got a bonus of $500! 

Yessir, AUGUST BACK TO SCHOOL BONUS,  5 new Broker/Website Owners  gives you $1000 total with the $500 bonus.  very cool

Be CONSISTENT in every thing that you do and say, keep your word and keep your promises.  You must be ACCOUNTABLE and this involves being ORGANIZED.  The www.SHOPtoEARN.net/protect  virtual office is so great for that.  Everything is all there and organized for you, available to you 24/7.  But you know, it helps to stay as organized as possible in every aspect of one’s life, reduces stress, for sure!

Be HONEST and be KNOWLEDGEABLE.  If you don’t know the answer to something, be honest and say, “I am not sure, I will have to get back to you on that.”  That gives you a chance to learn (you can call me) and a reason to call your referral back again!  Listen and learn who needs more details, if so, give it to them.  If not remember, it is better to SHOW & then TELL.

Ya gotta have THICK SKIN.  This is not about you.  This is a concept that works.  Some will, some won’t, so what, someone is waiting.  Do not take it personally if they do not see the value.  NO means NOT NOW in most cases.  You do not know what is going on with them, respect that and ask if you can check in with them in a few months.  You will be even more successful by then and they will see the value.  If you don’t have thick skin, wear a leather jacket!

Believe me, no means not now.  I met a guy at the Millionaire Mind.  His friend asked him for 8 months to take a look at the www.24hourtour.net/protect.  He said no every time, deleted e-mails and voice mails.  Then one day he goes to his friend’s office, they share lunch and he looks at the TOUR.  He sees the VALUE, loves the concept, signs up immediately and got 10 people in his first 30 days=$4100  Who knew?

TIME & MONEY is NOT AN ISSUE.  I have been saying this since day one.  It is all about V A L U E .  This makes sense to us, of course, because WE SEE THE VALUE in having our own portal and getting cash back every time we shop.  We have seen the results and the numerous successes.  Even the average Broker makes $457 a month, I think it is.  That pays for your monthly necessitites, maybe a car payment - it all helps.

LISTEN & ASK QUESTIONS, find out what they need, what are their concerns, and focus on those things that will prove valuable to them.  When they see the VALUE then you have a new member and we duplicate the process again & again.  Do the math, 2 x 2 and double that answer each time for 12 months, it’s over 8000 people in a year. 

Let’s be honest, those who keep working it and enroll their 2 referrals and then a whole bunch more, make a whole bunch more.  Does that happen for you in your present job.  If you work a lot harder and more hours, do you get a lot more money?

If you LISTEN, people will tell you what you need to know, they will give you information.  An opportunity is never lost, it just moves to the next person !  If they cannot see the VALUE, they are saying no to the opportunity, not to YOU !

If you have good friends and family who respect you (It’s hard to be a prophet in your own town) then try what Lil does.  “Give me your credit card, you have to see this, it is an amazing concept and will save you a bundle when you shop on line.”  I am yet to meet that person, but it’s a good ice breaker, and a way to say, seriously, have you seen this company,  www.ShopToEarth.net/protect

OVERVIEWS can be done ONLINE anytime, best to be with the person, either in front of the computer or on the phone together.  No computer, then print out a few pages from the website, the slide show and some documentation pages and do your own from a 3 ring notebook.  I have one and I use it a lot, very impressive, nice colors.

Poor people know poor people, sad but true.  Look for business people, successful people who are willing to try something new, to step outside their comfort zone.  You are one, or you would not be here.  Find people that you respect and ask them to give you their opinion.  You can say, “Would you mind taking a look at somehting?  I know you have been very successful and you are a wise person.  I have something I have invested in and I respect your opinion.”  People like to help, they will do that for you and then realize that you actually have a gift for them! 

Supplemental Income, everyone is doing it!

Just as I suspected…everyone is joining an MLM or emerging network marketing company.  There is a sense of urgency and you best be first before someone beats you to it.  I’ll say it again, please don’t think that you are bugging someone or it’s too much money to ask them to spend.  When you finally get the guts to talk to somebody what do they say?? 

Here is what you may hear:     I already talked to another friend who is a member of the innovative E-Commerce portal, www.SHOPTOEARN.net/suzyk, it is spreading like wildfire across the USA and I just joined.    O U C H !

Uh oh, that may be the next big producer and she signed with someone else because you projected what you think or fear on to that person, you were mistaken and you chose not to act and…now it is too late.  :(

Or they say:  Wow, I was just going to call you, I just joined this great new network marketing company, I paid only $950 dollars and got all this great juice product, its all natural whatever, blah blah, its the best pay plan ever and I want you to take a look at it.  W H A T ?

www.ShopToEarth.net/suzyk   www.ShopToEarn.net/suzyk  sells nothing and offers you everything.  You don’t have to buy anything, or even work it as a business.  Just own a portal for $349, and get cash back when you shop.  At an average of 10-12% from the EARN stores and 15% from the EARTH stores,  you will get a return on your investment simply with back to school and holiday purchases!  Did you hear the webinar tonight?  They added EARN stores Ghiardelli Chocolates, Coldwater Creek and someother good ones, even Orange County Choppers for those bikers Larry & Joelle!!

Upgrade for just $99, become a BROKER, sign 3 people and you make your money back.  yep, $100 training bonus for each person and $50 bonus for the 200 points x 3 = 600 points = $350 -  Your website is paid for.  Shop and work it if you choose, you will find a very decent return for your efforts, on your time, your way.  Everything done for you, legal affiliate agreements, 24/7 all virtual accounting and placement, for such a small investment and you are in business within minutes!  :)

Let the company train people for you, send referrals to Overviews anywhere in the country - they are doing another blitz in August from Portland & Seattle to Houston, NJ, NY, Elk Grove Chicago, cmon, this is the best support I have ever seen.  This company is solid, solvent and well positioned.

That is why I say once again, www.ShopToEarth.net/suzyk pays out 70%, they don’t flush points, you are not asking anyone to buy anything, just re-direct their mouse and save on necessities.  Go GREEN, lighten your footprint, help families save and teach their kids how to shop with intention, make lists, get free shipping.  What could be better?

No cell phone service that just came from Europe, no fancy energy sport drinks tho we have some in the green mall I think - just a portal that has everything you need and pays you cash back when you shop…period.

You best be the first to tell anyone and everyone cuz if you don’t, they are going to do something else with someone else - this is the time, there is an urgency - go for it, you have nothing to lose, unless you do nothing.

Financial Planning, Personal Responsibility, it matters !

Like most people, I can appreciate wanting to enjoy life and not worry too much about tomorrow.  Yet in today’s world, being practical can make a big difference in the quality of your life in that not so distant future.  How many people do you know who have a retirement plan and have systems in place so that they can enjoy their life at 60 or 75 years old, not having to sample pizza at the local supermarket, just to cover meager living expenses.  Don’t laugh, it’s very sad to witness and all too prevalent.  At that point, believe me, it is no party.  Even someone 20 years old needs to think very seriously about the reality of making a decent living.

When you introduce the concept of  www.ShopToEarn.net/suzyk to new people and they tell you that they are not interested, often before they even know what it is…you may want to ask them a few questions.  Show them that these are things that matter, issues that you have considered and chosen to take action.

Find out if they have a retirement account that is regularly funded and at what age they plan to stop working.  Is that adjusted for inflation?  Do they have a budget?  How much do they spend each month compared to what they have coming in?  Are they satisfied and optimistic about their future?

You do not need specifics as to how much they have saved or what they make.  The point is to find out if they have considered these kinds of very important issues.  If they smirk and act like that is a ridiculous question, then see what else you can learn about that person.  Do they have anyone who will be able to take care of them, if they are unable to pay bills, get health insurance, have a secure home?  If the only thing that they can tell you, is how much debt they have, then clearly this is someone who would benefit from an opportunity to improve their situation.

But do they want to?  See if you can find out why they are so resistant.  Is what they are doing now, working for them?  Are they satisfied with their quality of life?  What are their goals, do they have any?  How do they imagine their life in 10 years?  Getting married and having children is a nice vision, but did you know that by the time a child is 18 years old it will cost over 1 million $$ to educate, house and feed and provide health care for just one child.  Not to mention the importance of being emotionally fit to be a role model for that innocent life that you brought into the world.  Yikes.  Have you tried to buy a house lately, get a car loan, how about dental care?  How is your credit score?

All of these seemingly simple necessities involve having a steady income that is not only enough to live on, but provides enough $$ to SAVE for the future.  Don’t hold me to the details, but I know that saving $100 a month at age 25, when you are 50 you will have $1M.  If you wait til you are 35, you will have $200,ooo.  Big difference and won’t get you very far in 2035.  Where are you in that matrix?  Does everyone you know have that?  When you are young, it’s easy to believe you can always get another job somewhere, ..but how long can you do that?  Do you have a skill that somebody needs and will pay good money for? 

We do this to help people, to question what it is they have done to create a life of fulfillment in the years to come.  Money isn’t everything, it is just what you need to have a home, decent food, healthcare and some pleasure on a daily basis.  Love is most important, in particular self love; that is what it takes to be a responsible thriving citizen in your community.

I watched CNN’s Black in America tonight.  Having lived in Malawi and South Africa, I know the conditions in which many of these incredible people live and somehow manage to survive in a world that we could not endure for a week.  Chris Rock’s wife Malik, has committed to giving back, to creating programs that give young people an opportunity to step outside their environment, to figure out who they are, gain self esteem and make a difference.

What do people care about, where is their passion?  Ask them.  If you can’t take care of yourself, some one has to.  Do they expect the state to take care of them?  That means taxes for social services, community programs and all those things that they keep taking away while everyone is up in arms about the government and taxes.  Where is the money to come from?

We are creating our own reality.  We are finding a way to fill a need, to utilize systems that are already in place.  It’s not rocket science, it is just more creative.  Find a need and fill it.  Bottom line, it is a process of education.  We are successful when we help people to shift their thinking and to realize that in fact, this is something that is possible, that works, and it is not that hard.  The benefits can be life enhancing, maybe even life changing.  Go to any of these overviews and trainings and you will meet people whose lives have changed 180 degrees.  They are every day people who decided they wanted more, and they got it.  Are you one of those people?  Let’s find more and make it happen.

Momentum - think about it…

MOMENTUM:  the force or speed of movement. 

What impedes momentum? 

INERTIA: resistance or disinclination to motion, action or CHANGE…

We have seen that E-Commerce in the form of www.ShopToEarth.net/suzyk  is a perfect example of an idea whose time has come.  If you truly see the value in this concept, there can be nothing that can deter your sense of urgency to ride this wave and share it with others.  In particular, others who are willing to try something new, that has potential and serves a purpose - in this case it is multi-purposeful.

We help ourselves and help others to bring intention into their consumption.  We teach organization and planning, conscious consuming, mindful spending.  We examine our carbon footprint, conserve our time, energy and tranquility.  We upgrade our thinking, learn to use new systems, we change and grow.  We find new products that are eco-friendly, safer and we GO GREEN.  We become aware of how our behavior affects our environment….

*Take advantage of the momentum and propel yourself into greatness.  Do not be impeded by those who are unwilling to take action, to change.  This could be the most important thing that you do, something that will continue to manifest in your life, affect your future and those of so many with whom you interact.

When you know that you like something and that it works for you, you cannot lose your focus.  If a person has an “opinion” based on disinformation or hearsay, recognize the resistance and utilize the force within that moves you forward.  Amateurs convince, professionals sort.  Find like-minded, motivated people who realize that they are more than their “story.”  We all have one.

This is about accomplishment, making a difference, seizing opportunity, moving forward, changing - manifesting.  What do you want and how badly?

*Phil Wilson - manifesting The Life You Were Born To Live…Happy B’day Phil!

www.shoptoearth.net/suzyk - Get TWO for 1 EyeBuyDirect.com

Yes that’s right, it’s the EyeBuyDirect Huge Summer clearance sale and they are giving away thousands of prescription glasses for FREE! Single Vision Lenses Included!

Simply add as many pairs of glasses as you like to your shopping cart. During checkout, the frames will automatically be paired and you will pay only for one of the two pairs.

* Sale lasts one week between Monday July 20th and Sunday July 26th (sale starts and ends midnight PST) 
* Minimum order $14.95 
* Free eyeglasses- cheaper of the two 
* Offer not including Designer frames, Sport frames & Sunglasses 
* Offer includes only single vision lenses with anti-scratch coating 
* No double discounts- Buy one Get one Free overrides other coupons & discounts 

Yes, but with your  E-Commerce portal, you get the additional 12% just being a member of  www.shoptoearn.net/suzyk  or whatever your portal name is - enjoy!!

My gift for you today…

There is a vitality,
a life force,
a quickening
that is translated through you into action,
and because there is only one of you in all time,
this expression is unique.

And If you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and be lost.
The world will not have it. It is not your business to determine
how good it is
nor how valuable it is
nor how it compares with other expressions.

It is your business to keep it yours clearly and directly
to keep the channel open.
You do not even have to believe in yourself or your work.
You have to keep open and aware directly to the urges that motivate YOU.

Keep the channel open…
No artist is pleased…

There is no satisfaction whatever at anytime
There is only a queer, divine dissatisfaction
a blessed unrest that keeps us marching
and makes “us” MORE alive than the others.

Martha Graham
( - a letter to Agnes De Mille-)

Tim Sales offers great advice for network marketers

sorry folks, formatting issues again, my phone died and while spending 4 hours at the phone store, I think I really found someone that can help me now - let’s hope he is for real..

You can get more info from Tim Sales’  www.brilliantcompensation.com   I get his newsletter and find his information extremely helpful.  

Aside from having the right attitude, which is not always easy (don’t talk about this incredible concept www.ShopToEarth.net/suzyk  when you are having a down day, it won’t work for you)  you want to have the experience of talking to people, because that above all else, will make you better at presenting - you need the practice, so when you are feeling good, talk to as many people as you can, it helps simply to get their opinion.  Ask them for feedback, tell them you are new at this and you want to get some experience, would they mind listening to you and together watching the  www.24hourtour.net/suzyk



What’s an objection?

Let’s break down exactly what an “objection” is.  An objection means that a prospect is “opposed” to something.  Opposed means to be in conflict with or be resistant to.   A couple of examples are:  

A person is opposed to war - meaning based on their belief that there shouldn’t be war; they are against (in conflict with) war.   A person is opposed to divorce - based on their religious beliefs they believe something bad will happen to them later if they get a divorce.

A person is opposed to eating sweet potatoes (are resistant to eating them). An example related to MLM is a person being opposed to network marketing - they’ve heard some false things in the newspaper about network marketing and believe it to be unethical. Another example is a person is opposed to selling (in general) - earlier in her life she was trying to sell Girl Scout cookies and didn’t like the feeling of being told “no.”  So she made up her mind that “she was not good at selling”; therefore now she is opposed to it.

The distinction between being “in conflict with” versus “resistant to” is how strong of a position do they take against that which they are opposed to.   If they easily shrug it off - they were resistant to it… but if they’re willing to die for it - they are definitely in conflict with it!

Two main types of objections.There are those objections that are expressed (meaning the prospect tells you exactly what they are opposed to) and there are objections that are unexpressed (meaning the prospect has an objection but won’t tell you what it is). The objection, “I’m not interested” (without any other explanation) is a great example of an unexpressed objection. The prospect is not telling you exactly what they’re not interested in.  An unreturned phone call is another example of an unexpressed objection.  
 
Unexpressed objections are normally the end of working with that particular prospect.    Examples of expressed objections would be when the prospect says, “That’s one of those pyramids.” Or, “I don’t like sales.”

**sounds to me like he is saying when people are non-responsive or that resistant, don’t waste your time and set yourself up for rejection and disappointment.    Remember, amateurs convince, professionals sort.  Move on, find a brilliant, motivated person who sees the value and enjoy THAT connection!

Where do objections come from?     An objection can come because of misunderstandings from things the prospect has read or heard.     An objection can also come from an experience - as in they’ve been in M.L.M before or have looked at M.L.M prior and have decided against it.
     
Also, an objection can (and most often does) come because the prospect has doubts whether they can succeed at network marketing. I group questions and objections into one category only because how you handle them is similar. But you should be aware that whether the prospect states something as a question or an objection it’s a good idea to measure their degree of opposition.   This will tell you how much assertiveness to use in handling the question or objection (see Communication Quality number 4 - Use the Right Amount of Assertiveness) in Brilliant Communicator.

What’s the purpose in Handling Objections?     
The purpose (and the only purpose) of handling an objection is to help your prospect get past what is currently stopping them from achieving what they need, want or don’t want.       The wrong purpose in handling objections is to get the person into your business.   What’s the difference? EVERYTHING!     The moment your prospect gets the idea that your answers ARE FOR YOUR GAIN - they withdraw and very often every objection becomes an unexpressed objection!   I visualize a turtle’s head withdrawing into its shell - it is very difficult to get them to come back out and when they do they are very skeptical.     Of course you want them in your business… but the entire time you are with your prospect you must be interested in helping them get what they want, not what you want.      

Getting them into your business is only valuable IF THEY DECIDE that it will serve them to do so. It does you no good to convince them to join you as you’ll have to keep convincing them. So your purpose in handling their objections is simply to help them past what’s stopping them - keep this as your purpose and you’ll always say the right thing and you will be surprised at how easy it is to handle objections. Here are the steps of exactly how to handle questions and objections:

  1. Listen completely through the question/objection.
  2. Confirm understanding.
  3. Make the question or objection valid to the prospect.
  4. Handle or facilitate handling Questions and/or Objections.
  5. Complete the handling and return to the previous step of the Inviting Formula.


I am seriously considering his Brilliant Communicator program. I have talked toother successful network marketers who say it is invaluable. Then I can share some of the concepts here, with all of you.  In the meantime, define exactly what their onjection is by asking more questions.

So you had a bad experience or you know someone who had a bad experience with MLM ?  How long ago was that and what exactly was the product.  How does it compare to this E-Commerce concept of a shopping portal?

If you have something that you feel strongly about, do you have a problem sharing that with someone, for example a good book?  Does that feel like selling to you, when you tell someone about a book or restaurant or store that you like?

Did you say that you were looking for an income?  What were you planning to do to secure an income stream.  Are you looking for a job with an employer?  Have you ever owned a business?

Have you looked at the numbers when it comes to if and when you can retire and just how much cold hard cash you will need? How long do you plan to work? What kind of an income do you expect to have with your present savings? Do you have sunbstantial savings?

Would you be interested to try something that brings an income that you can work on your own schedule?  Would you like to save money when you buy necessities? Are you willing to take 15 minutes to examine a concept that is very simple and creative and helps people?

Unfortunately, freedom from fear is an exception to the rule. Most people fear the unknown and are unwilling to even open their eyes, let alone dive in.  They may not know how to accept abundance if it sat on their doorstep.  If that is who you are talking to, you may find it extremely challenging.  Allow them stay in that place, only they can determine when they have had enough.

If USA TODAY found 1 out of every 2 people they talked to was looking for another income stream, surely you will encounter 1 out of 5.  Keep talking to people - you may need to talk to 10 to get 1 - you can do it. I hope this helps you.

Work at home, make $1000 this month with your own E-Commerce portal

Ahhh, spent a warm week in the desert nursing “me mum” elder caregiving…  Now there is yet another tremendous opportunity for personal growth.  She has an amazing constitution, which gives me a good base to build upon, just have to avoid the 200+ pounds of leaking ammonia that a Chevron plant here near LAX just reported they had been allowing for the last 2 months.  They “say” that they have a permit to release certain amounts of ammonia (yikes, oil business residue) and it is “not hazardous to human health” except oh yeah, when it bonds with other chemicals causing “smog” and x amount of parts per million causing respiratory whatever.  Anyway…

Network Marketing, the hardest job you will ever choose not give up.  Yes, this month of July, they have a “Stars and Stripes” bonus.  When you refer 5 Brokers or Website Owners, you get a $500 bonus, add that to your $100 training bonus for each referral and hello…………you just made $1000. 

Tune in to the call on Sunday night, Joe Locke 8PM ET and a “special guess, I mean guest?” so be there and find out how to do it.  Don’t re-invent the wheel, just follow the 4  Steps to Duplication.  Nobody said it was a piece of cake, but it works. 

Looking forward to this Overview tonight.  BTW, if you know someone who shops online and says they don’t have any money - then see if they will shop through YOUR portal, when they do buy necessities.  They will see how the system works, become a satisfied customer and see how much $$ you make.  If a person doesn’t have money, this is the way to MAKE MONEY - FAST, and it’s what they already do!  No fancy juices, just an E-Commerce portal    www.24hourtour.net/suzyk

to be continued  :)

Online Shopping, a Professional Business Model

50% of people polled by USA TODAY said they are looking for supplemental income.  hello?  That means 1 of every 2 people you encounter out there in the world, is willing to listen to what you have to say about this innovative opportunity.  You can’t know who they are until you talk to them!  Even those who thought this economic downturn was not directly affecting them…thought wrong.

Listen, I accept that there’s every kind of MLM/network marketing company out there and I also think that most of it is a lot of hype; jumping on the band wagon to take advantage of people who are hurting.  These are founded by whiz marketing people who slap a fancy label on a product that they had someone make for them and they begin the process of hyping people about why this is the latest, best whatever.   This is completely different.

www.ShopToEarth.net/suzyk   is a PROVEN, very professional business model.  This company partnered with major corporate E-Commerce Affiliate Programs, like hundreds of them; that is no small feat.   The binary system is a simple, proven model to reward people who network and share information and, it insures residual income.  There are no “levels” per say, there are not different percentages paid to different levels or anything like that.  there are only two legs, so less competition, more teamwork, helping each other.  Everyone gets a training bonus when they bring someone in to the company.  Everyone gets the same amount of points, these accumulate and pay out a bonus - same to everyone.

S I M P L E

75% of wealthy people OWN their own business.   This is your chance to realize that American dream they all talk about.  The democratization of wealth, anyone can do it.  You do not need prior experience or a degree.  There are 4 aspects that are very important and this is the primary reason that    www.ShopToEarn.net/suzyk   is such a successful business model.

Examine this, if you will:

1.  EXPANDING MARKET  -  E-Commerce is well established, will grow $300B    The Wellness Industry will grow over $1.3 Trillion by 2016.  Regardless of the economy, people still need every day necessities.

2.  CONSUMABLE PRODUCT - we have over 10,000 products just on the EARTH side, we have over 1000 stores, many of them major big box stores, grocery chains, everything that anyone needs for monthly necessities.  And, we have a flat rate $10.99 shipping.  We are not promoting luxury spending, but for those who desire to do that and have the means…we have those stores, too.  We have the largest offering to suit the largest population.  These are products that are bought repeatedly, we get the benefits, we all win.  We promote conscious consuming, educating young people to planning and buying with intention.

3.  TIMING & TRENDS -  The Green Movement is now on everyone’s mind, people WANT TO GO GREEN.  How’s that for being in the right place at the right time?  I also mentioned E-Commerce and Wellness products, we have it all ! Shopping online is the new trend, an efficient way to save time, $$, fuel and to avoid stress

4.  ABILITY TO HELP OTHERS - everyone wants to make a difference, in their own lives and in the lives of those they passionately care about.  Do this for yourself, your family, support your favorite charity, school, religious organization, sports club..  This is something that everybody already does, shop for what they need.

We are not trying to change anyone’s behavior, we are simply offering a smarter way to more efficiently obtain what we need.If you do not want to work it as a business, simply own your own website as  Website Owner.  You will make back your investment within months.  It is estimated a typical family saves $50 per head, per month.  Become a BROKER, tell 3 other people and you have made back your investment, within days if you choose.  After that…pure profit.  All of your cash back from shopping is rebate money, NOT taxable - only the Bonus points and training bonus is income, and there is plenty of that.

If you happened upon this website go to   www.24hourtour.net/suzyk   If you are on my TEAM already, I thank you for making the choice.  I am at your service.   I will be on my cell til Monday July 13,   760-808-1195

Perceptions, opinions, REALITY - what’s yours?

CHANGING PERCEPTION is the key to changing one’s beliefs.  Everyone needs to update their belief system, to re-examine old and new concepts that prevail in this ever changing  REALITY.  

Perception is the KEY to changing unhappiness into happiness and illness into wellness; poverty into wealth or shall I say a sense of lacking into that of abundance.  

We can only change perception by shifting our identification.   When we IDENTIFY with a noble, whole, loving, powerful part of ourselves, then we are able to perceive and experience the noble, whole, loving, powerful part of what we are perceiving. That shift of identification is a CHOICE.  

Perception is not a choice.  It is a consequence of identification.  Everything we do has a single aim: to see reality more clearly so we can see the connections and what is for our highest good. There is nothing that we need to alter or improve except our identification with the truth of who we are in our greatness.  

The greatest impulse toward this end is to identify with what we are attempting to express in this life and particularly at any given moment.  When we actualize this potential, we are aligning ourselves with our life purpose.  

Remember that what you identify with is a choice, and changing identification, changes perception.   And changing perception changes experiences.